Sun Fujie: I Understand the Decision You Made Then. I Only Hope to Know You One Day | 孙福捷：我理解你们当年的决定，只盼有一天与你们相识

“I want to tell you that I understand why you had no choice but to give me up. It must have been a very difficult decision.”

These are the words Sun Fujie would like to say to his birth parents.

Now living in the United States, Fujie may originally be from Henan Province. He has few clues about the earliest chapter of his life, but he feels no blame towards the family he has never met. Instead, he looks back on that unknown past with understanding.

More than anything, he wants them to know that he is doing well.

“I grew up in a loving family. I went to university, and now I work at Disney.”

From an adopted child to a university student, and now an adult with a career and a life of his own, Fujie has grown up surrounded by the love and support of his adoptive parents and family.

But having a happy life today has not taken away his curiosity about where his story began.

He still hopes to understand where he comes from and to learn about the people to whom he is connected by blood. Most of all, he hopes that one day he will have the chance to meet and truly get to know his birth family.

“I hope that one day I can meet you and get to know you, and learn more about my roots.”

For many adoptees, this is perhaps one of the aspects of searching for birth family that can be hardest for others to fully understand.

Searching for one’s birth family does not mean denying the love of one’s adoptive parents. Nor does growing up with a happy and fulfilling life make the question “Where do I come from?” simply disappear. The past and the present do not have to replace one another. Both can be part of a person’s complete life story.

Perhaps Fujie is searching for more than an answer.

He wants his family somewhere far away to know that the child they once gave up has grown up safe and well, that he has been loved, and that he has built a life of his own.

And if they do meet one day, he hopes to bring not questions of blame, but understanding, along with a greeting that has waited many years to be spoken.

The information currently available suggests that Sun Fujie may originally be from Henan Province. If you have any information that might be connected to his origins, or if you can help by sharing his search, please help his story reach more people.

Perhaps a single share could help his voice reach the people he has been hoping to find.

May all the thoughts and feelings left unspoken for so many years have the chance to be heard. And may the words “I understand” one day be spoken in person to the family he has long hoped to know.

Click here to watch Fujie’s story.

“我想对你们说：我理解你们当年不得已放弃我，应该是一个很艰难的决定。”

这是孙福捷想对亲生父母说的话。

如今生活在美国的他，或许来自河南。关于生命最初的故事，他所掌握的线索并不多，但对于那些尚未谋面的亲人，他没有责怪，而是选择用理解去面对那段未知的过去。

他更想让他们知道，自己现在过得很好。

“我在有爱的家庭里长大了，也上了大学，现在在迪士尼工作。”

从一个被收养的孩子，到走进大学校园，再到拥有自己的工作与生活，福捷已经长大成人。养父母和家庭给予他的爱，陪伴他走过了成长中重要的岁月。

但拥有幸福的现在，并没有让他停止对生命来处的好奇。

他仍然希望知道自己从哪里来，希望了解与自己血脉相连的人，也希望有一天，能够真正与亲生家人“相识相知”。

“盼有一天和你们相识相知，了解我的根源。”

对于许多被收养者而言，这或许正是寻亲最难被外界完全理解的地方。

寻找亲生家人，并不意味着否定养父母给予的爱；拥有幸福的人生，也并不会让“我从哪里来”这个问题自然消失。过去与现在并不需要彼此取代，它们都可以成为一个人完整生命故事的一部分。

福捷想寻找的，也许不仅仅是一个答案。

他想让远方的亲人知道，当年那个孩子已经平安长大，有人爱他，他也拥有了属于自己的人生。

而如果有一天真的能够相见，他希望带去的不是责问，而是一份理解，以及一句迟到了许多年的问候。

目前的线索显示，孙福捷或许来自河南。如果您掌握任何可能与他身世有关的信息，或愿意帮助转发这段寻亲视频，请让更多人看到他的故事。

也许一次转发，就能让他的声音抵达那个一直想要寻找的地方。

愿所有无法说出口多年的牵挂，都有机会被听见；愿那句“我理解你们”，有一天能够亲口说给等待相识的人听。

点击这里，观看福捷的故事。