Shen Huaqi: Because I Want to Meet Them | 沈华起:因为我想见他们

“Because I want to meet them.”

When asked why she wanted to search for her birth family, Shen Huaqi gave this simple answer.

There was no lengthy explanation, no complicated reason.

She simply wants to meet the people with whom she shares a biological connection, but whom she has never had the chance to know.

A Story That Began at Wolong Lake, Shenyang

According to the information currently available, Shen Huaqi was born around 15 February 2002.

On 22 February that year, she was found on an artificial rockery at Wolong Lake in Kangping County, Shenyang, Liaoning Province.

She may have been only about a week old at the time.

She later spent some time at a children's welfare institution in Shenyang before being adopted to the Netherlands.

More than twenty years have passed since then. The baby girl has grown up and built a life of her own in the Netherlands, yet much about her earliest days remains unknown.

She does not know who her birth parents are or where they might be today.

And what she wants most is, in fact, very simple: to meet them.

Another Name: Shen Huabai

Besides searching for her birth family, Shen Huaqi's search also mentions another name: Shen Huabai.

She hopes to establish whether she and Shen Huabai once lived at the same children's welfare institution in Shenyang.

There is currently no confirmed answer to this question.

For international adoptees searching for their origins, however, people who may have lived at the same institution can sometimes provide valuable clues about their early lives.

Perhaps someone still remembers the children, the place where they lived, or has kept photographs or records from that time.

Even if such information does not lead directly to her birth parents, it may help Shen Huaqi piece together the first few pages of her life story.

More Than Twenty Years Later, Does Anyone Remember That Baby Girl?

Twenty-four years have passed since February 2002.

The surroundings of Wolong Lake in Kangping County may have changed, and people who lived nearby at the time may have moved away.

But perhaps someone still remembers what happened.

If you lived near Wolong Lake in Kangping County, Shenyang, around February 2002, know anything about the baby girl found on the artificial rockery, or worked or lived at a children's welfare institution in Shenyang and remember Shen Huaqi or Shen Huabai, please help by sharing this appeal.

A place, a date or a name could become an important clue in reconnecting her with her past.

Because She Wants to Meet Them, She Keeps Searching

When we hear stories of adoptees searching for their birth families, we often try to understand what drives their search.

Is it a desire to know where they came from? To understand the circumstances their birth parents faced? Or to fill in a missing chapter of their lives?

For Shen Huaqi, these questions may all matter.

But her own reason is more direct than any explanation: “Because I want to meet them.”

Sometimes, searching for one's birth family needs no more complicated reason than that.

Somewhere in the world, there may be people with whom she shares a connection through birth, and she hopes that one day she will have the chance to get to know them.

May Shen Huaqi's wish reach more people, and may the story that began at Wolong Lake in Shenyang in 2002 one day find its missing answers.

And may the words “Because I want to meet them” one day become “We've finally met.”

Click here to watch Huaqi’s story.

“因为我想见他们。”

当被问起为什么要寻找亲生家人时,沈华起给出了这样一个简单的回答。

没有太多解释,也没有复杂的理由。

她只是想见见那些与自己有着血缘联系、却从未有机会真正认识的人。

从沈阳卧龙湖开始的故事

根据现有寻亲资料,沈华起大约出生于2002年2月15日。

同年2月22日,她在辽宁省沈阳市康平县卧龙湖的一处假山上被发现。

那时,她可能才出生一周左右。

后来,她曾在沈阳的福利院生活,并被领养到荷兰。

二十多年过去,当年的女婴已经长大。她在荷兰有了自己的人生,但对于生命最初的那段经历,仍然有许多未知。

她不知道自己的亲生父母是谁,也不知道他们如今身在何处。

而她最想做的事情,其实很简单:见见他们。

还有一个名字:沈华柏

除了寻找亲生家人,沈华起的寻亲信息中还提到了另一个名字——沈华柏。

她希望确认,自己是否曾经与沈华柏一起在沈阳福利院生活过。

这个问题目前还没有明确答案。

但对于寻找身世的海外被领养者来说,曾经在同一家福利院生活的人,也可能成为了解早年经历的重要线索。

也许有人还记得当年的孩子,记得他们曾经生活的地方,或者保留着一些照片和记录。

即使这些信息无法直接找到亲生父母,也可能帮助沈华起拼起生命最初的几页故事。

二十多年后,谁还记得那个女婴?

2002年的沈阳康平,距离今天已经过去二十四年。

卧龙湖周围的环境或许已经改变,当年生活在那里的人,也可能早已搬离。

但一段往事,也许仍然留在某个人的记忆里。

如果您曾在2002年2月前后生活在沈阳市康平县卧龙湖附近,了解当年假山上发现女婴的情况,或者曾在沈阳相关福利机构工作、生活,认识沈华起或沈华柏,请帮助留意并转发这则寻亲信息。

一个地点、一个日期、一个名字,都可能成为重新连接过去的重要线索。

因为想见,所以继续寻找

在许多寻亲故事里,我们常常试图理解寻找的意义。

是为了知道自己从哪里来?是为了了解亲生父母当年的处境?还是为了补上生命中缺失的一段记忆?

对于沈华起来说,这些问题或许都有意义。

但她给出的理由,比任何解释都更直接:“因为我想见他们。”

有时候,寻找亲生家人不需要一个更复杂的理由。

只是因为,在这个世界上的某个地方,可能还有一些与自己有着生命联系的人,而她希望有一天,能够真正认识他们。

愿沈华起的心愿能够被更多人看见,也愿2002年那个发生在沈阳卧龙湖的故事,有一天能够找到后续的答案。

愿那句“因为我想见他们”,终有一天变成一句“我们终于见面了”。

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