She Learnt Chinese to Move Closer to Where Her Story Began | 她学会了中文,只为了离自己的来处更近一点

Born in 1990, Chu Hong now lives in the Netherlands.

She speaks Chinese and has also lived and worked in China. For seven years, she has continued learning the language, hoping it would bring her closer to this country — and closer to the beginning of her own life story.

According to the information currently available, Chu Hong was found on 28 September 1990 beside a stamp-collecting shop near Penshuichi in Guiyang, Guizhou Province. At the time, a woman asked two sisters, Liu Li and Liu Qiong, who were on their way to the toilet, to look after the baby for a moment. She said she would return shortly, but never came back.

Fortunately, a note was left with Chu Hong. It recorded her name and approximate date of birth. That small piece of paper became one of the only remaining links to the earliest part of her life.

Many years later, she began searching for her birth family.

She says she is not searching with resentment.

She simply wants to understand where her story began, and to say one thing to her birth parents: “Thank you for giving me life.”

For many adoptees, searching for their birth family is not a rejection of the love they have received from their adoptive parents. Rather, it is a way of understanding their origins and completing the missing pieces of their story.

Knowing who they are and where they come from does not diminish their gratitude towards those who raised them. On the contrary, it allows love to take on a broader meaning.

If you have any knowledge of events around Penshuichi in Guiyang, Guizhou Province, in or around 1990, or hold any information connected to Chu Hong’s origins, please contact us and share this message with others.

One share may help a young woman who has travelled across the world and never given up searching move one step closer to an answer.

May every search be met with kindness, and may every expression of gratitude one day receive a response.

Click here to watch Chu Hong’s story.

出生于1990年的褚红,如今生活在荷兰。

她会说中文,也曾来到中国工作和生活。七年来,她始终没有放弃学习中文,因为她希望能够更靠近这片土地,也更靠近自己的生命起点。

根据现有资料,褚红于1990年9月28日在贵州省贵阳市喷水池集邮门市部旁被发现。当时,一位女性将她交给正准备去上厕所的刘丽、刘琼姐妹照看,说很快回来,却从此再也没有出现。

幸运的是,褚红身上留有一张字条,上面写着她的姓名和大约的出生日期。这张小小的字条,也成为她与生命最初那段时光之间仅存的连接。

多年以后,她开始寻找自己的亲生家人。

她说,自己并不是带着埋怨而来。

她只是想知道,自己的故事从哪里开始;也想对亲生父母说一句:“谢谢你们给了我生命。”

对于许多被收养者而言,寻亲并非否定养父母给予的爱,而是希望了解自己的来处,让生命的拼图更加完整。

知道自己是谁,从哪里来,并不会减少对养育之恩的感激;相反,它让爱拥有了更宽广的意义。

如果您曾在1990年前后了解贵州省贵阳市喷水池附近发生过相关情况,或掌握与褚红身世有关的线索,欢迎与我们联系,也请将这条信息分享给更多人。

或许,您的一次转发,就能帮助一位跨越万里、始终没有放弃寻找的女孩,离答案更近一步。

愿每一次寻找,都能遇见善意;愿每一份感谢,都终有回应。

点击这里,观看赭红的故事。

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